Monday, July 27, 2009

FTC

Tomorrow is the 2nd FTC, Family Team Conference, we will attend for Fuzzy's case. I'm starting to get nervous since I'll be going by myself because of work conflicts. I have Fuzzy's lifebook, a new picture to give the social worker showing how bad his butt looked after his last overnight visit, and reports from the daycare showing how his mood and health changes when he has these extended visits. I don't think I mentioned that he had an overnight visit the day after his birthday. He was brought back to daycare the day after the visit at 11 AM. The daycare called me at 1 to tell me that he had already had 3 nasty, painful blowouts. His bottom was bloody raw. I had to leave work early to go get him a couple of hours later after his 5th blowout. He was screaming in pain. I was in tears for my son. We're still trying to get his bottom back to normal and that was a week ago. Also the CW told me several other things that the BM had done wrong on that visit like being at her mom's house even though she's been ordered to keep Fuzzy away from there. The CW had to pick him up from there. The BM's mom volunteered the information that they had been feeding him whole milk and spaghetti! This child had not had any formula in 24 hours! WTF? How do you even think that it's a good idea to "wean" a baby overnight and feed him greasy spaghetti all day? CW has told me that they are planning on stopping the overnight visits because of all the problems and BM's inability to follow simple directions. I'm hoping that Fuzzy's attorney makes this meeting so I can meet her and talk with her. I know it would be too much to hope for termination to become the new case plan, but I can't help but hold out a little flicker of hope. Please keep me and Fuzzy in your thoughts and prayers tomorrow. I'll update as soon as I can. Thanks.

5 comments:

Brandy said...

Oh boy honey... how dare this "Mom" do this crap to him!?! Does she really think that her actions are helping her case to get him back? Uhh now! But, that only helps you keep him forever right? As much as it sucks for Fuzzy that she's not treating him well and he has to suffer... its also good in a way too bittersweet I guess because it just helps you keep him.

niobe said...

Thinking of you and your little man. This whole thing is just unbelievable.

mesa said...

Definitely thinking about you guys Ashley. ♥

armyadamsgirl said...

you are in my thoughts and prayers...

Dream Mommy said...

I knew she'd hang herself. Keep recording evidence for court and keep copies for yourself in case they "forget" to bring it up in court.