Sunday, November 29, 2009

I'm Still Here

I haven't posted in a while because I just haven't felt like talking. Fuzzy's CW called last week to say that they (her, her supervisor, and the district supervisor) discussed the case and now they are not going to recommend changing the case plan to adoption. So basically they think that what BM is doing is still not a big deal, and she should get even more time. We're praying that the judge will see things differently and change the case plan. But all we can do is pray and trust that God will take care of Fuzzy and us.

We had a nice Thanksgiving. My brother and his family were here so we got to spend some time with them. My niece has gotten so big since I last saw her, and she's crawling around so well. She kept giving me these huge grins. It was fun to watch Fuzzy playing on the floor with her.

We did some black Friday shopping, but we didn't go out until later in the morning to avoid the craziness. Saturday was spent at home most of the day until we went to dinner with some family. Today I woke up with a horrible migraine and congestion. I could barely see straight. I managed to go up to the church to get the computer ready for the 2 church services before I came home and crashed for several hours. I'm still not feeling too hot, but I'm forcing myself to stay out of bed at least for a few hours before bed.

L came back from her extended family visit. She's been acting up, but I know it's because she's upset about having to leave her siblings again. There's no way to really explain to a 2 year old that she's just going for a visit. We cut her a lot of slack. But we also can't let her just run wild and get away with breaking all our rules because she's been away.


armyadamsgirl said...

this just makes me so sad... how is doing drugs not a big deal? i guess i never asked before but has she completed her tasks yet?

I am praying the judge will have do what is right for your little man as his case worker dont give a damn @@

Holly said...

Prayers, prayers, prayers. Fuzzy needs yall, and you all need him.

Sig said...

It is BS and it is making me sick (not to mention pissed as hell).
This may be of no comfort, BUT IF he does go back (and am praying REALLY hard this is NOT the case), bets are he is back in FC very quickly and back in your arms. I know that sucks because in the meantime he will be back with *her* but I just know he will end up with his REAL mommy for good.
I just hope the stupid CW, supervisor, etc get their heads out of their you-know-whats and stop giving her more chances. Enough is enough.
Ugh. (now I should tell you how I *really* feel, huh? LOL)

angiemn said...

man, i wish you had more rights in all of this BS. how can they say one thing and then go in a completely different direction?!?

when do you go back? hopefully the judge will see differently!!