Saturday, November 7, 2009

Low Standards

It's 2 AM and my son is coughing and hacking in his sleep. We can't get and keep him well, because we have to keep sending him to spend time with that idiot. No matter how many times you tell her that he can't be around smoke, she doesn't care. It pisses me off to no end that some people are held to such low standards that most people wouldn't even consider them parents or even a free teenage babysitter just because they gave birth. She makes him sick. She puts in him a lot of danger every time he's with her, but it's ok because she gave birth to him. I would die for him, but it doesn't matter because I didn't give birth to him. It's ok for her to ride him around in her lap in a little smoke filled pick-up truck. It's ok for her to feed him so many whole grapes that he's pooped whole grapes for 2 days. It's ok for her to let him sit around and marinate in a dirty diaper to the point where his private is red and irritated. I guess the judge will only see a problem is what she does lands him in the hospital, and even then she may just ignore it like everything else.

Next week, Fuzzy will be gone for 4 days, 4 whole days. God help me and God protect him.


armyadamsgirl said...

i am so sorry...

Sig said...

We are in the same boat. The judge is deaf dumb and blind, because the BIRTH father says he will take care of his kid. Yeah...and my name is mother mary.
Then they wonder why kids end up dead.
It makes me ILL.
And I cannot believe she is getting him for 4 days. Have they talked to you about reunification? Crazy Just crazy.
I have an idea for you but I can't put it on here, EM me... SA 3 @ aol .com (no spaces)